In todays society the war of the world is at its most high. With so many images and portrayals to what women should be. The entertainment business and pornography. I touched on this subject briefly but want to dig more into it. with having daughters it is hard to set the right example with so much already going on in the world to steer them in any direction, I think thats when your true morals within take a stand,
what example do I want to set? would I want my little girl doing this or that? what type of attention does that bring? and the list goes on. It’s hard enough as it is to find a good man. with the light that some shine on themselves bring the wrong type of man. some blame it on age, immaturity. I feel that it comes from self-esteem and wanting any type of attention. at the end of the day half dressed, body hanging out your clothes just to get a mans reaction or dancing around in videos for money in bra and panties and showing all you have to the world just lowers your respect. and what was it for? money? men? fame? what comes after that? at the end of the day you are still that person you presented your self as, what you’ve just shown, is what all will always see!
respect that others will have for you as well as the lack of respect you have for yourself. Then some wonder why no one takes them seriously and passes them around like last nights steak dinner. or should I say pork plate. Let’s be real no ones passing around a grade A steak to share!
At times I have struggled with how to present myself, I am human. I like attention just like the next but I have realized that you get the pool you swim in! I want a better pool. I want to have class and show my daughters that you have to be yourself but you also have to have respect for yourself. how you draw your picture is how others will paint it. There are a lot of good men out there that appreciate a good woman and that if you take stride in that it will pay off. your past will always play a major part in life so make yours one with mistakes but none that are detrimental to your growth.
I want to be a role model! someone with standards and I want to show my girls that in doing so you will have peace of mind in knowing that you did not have to do what you felt was expected just to find happiness and love. real men want more than meets the eye. private times are just that PRIVATE TIMES, sacred is SACRED! I want to be more than who I’ve been and I will be! no matter what the world throws, I will rise above it and stay in the picture that I am drawing NOW!
mothers love your children, hug them, tell them you love them. give them the attention they need before they feel the need to get the wrong attention from anyone! set examples! make time, talk to them. steer them away from the many guilty pleasures of the world so that when they become of age they will see it as mere child’s play thats unwarranted. fathers? be there for your children! be the man she needs to find again. show your sons women are to be respected and loved not toys that are used. make a stand, stop the cycle because so much of life now is being wasted on the wrong things that nothing is precious anymore. life itself is even collapsing.